Definition of Beauty?
-The quality present in a thing or person that gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the mind, whether arising from sensory manifestations (as shape, colour, sound, etc.), a meaningful design or pattern, or something else (as a personality in which high spiritual qualities are manifest).
Working with women on a daily basis (and also being one), you truly get an insight into the issues people have with themselves, their bodies and their appearance.
I have noticed a pattern over the last few years which is just getting a bit out of control in my opinion.
People have gotten this image of what true beauty is and what is now deemed as attractive.
This image has tons of hair extensions, layers of fake tan, fake nails, fake eyelashes, tattooed eyebrows, implants etc etc..
Unfortunately the list goes on and on and it's only getting worse.
Unfortunately the list goes on and on and it's only getting worse.
I have two opinions on this look.
My first opinion is that I truly believe people should look and dress whatever way they want to.
No-one has the right to tell you how you should look or dress.
No-one has the right to tell you how you should look or dress.
If that's the type of look that makes you happy, then don't let anyone tell you that you should change.
On the other hand, I've noticed alot of women wear that look because they have low self esteem, no confidence in themselves and feel they can hide behind the long lashes and dark tan.
I must admit that following a look that the media "deems" as attractive has a slight appeal to it.
You will look like everyone else, you won't stand out and I can understand how that appeals to alot of people who are suffering with low self esteem.
That feeling of belonging.
The feeling of similarity.
But I'm here to say that true beauty cannot be bought, manufactured or surgically implanted.
Beauty exists in your heart.
It's in your actions, your words and in how you treat others.
Have issues with your looks/body?
I've personally never met anyone who didn't.
But why let it ruin your life?
Why wake up every day and try to figure out what clothes you can wear to hide yourself from the world?
You would never treat another person that way so why put your own body and mind through it?
When you're lying on your deathbed thinking back on your life, you don't want to regret the choices you made and the way you treated yourself throughout your life.
Why not make a change and love instead of loathe?
Why not make a change and love instead of loathe?
C.
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